Friday, June 20, 2008

Is this the direction we are headed????

This article was on Foxnews.com today, and to me, this is deeply disturbing.
I have been on a "parenting kick" lately, reading some new parenting books in the hopes of getting some insight on certain behaviors we see popping up in our kids. Not the pleasant kind.
Reading stuff like this article though makes me sad, angry, and worried about our kids' future as parents themselves (God help them!)
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OTTAWA (AFP) - A Canadian court has lifted a 12-year-old girl's grounding, overturning her father's punishment for disobeying his orders to stay off the Internet, his lawyer said Wednesday.
The girl had taken her father to Quebec Superior Court after he refused to allow her to go on a school trip for chatting on websites he tried to block, and then posting "inappropriate" pictures of herself online using a friend's computer.
The father's lawyer Kim Beaudoin said the disciplinary measures were for the girl's "own protection" and is appealing the ruling.
"She's a child," Beaudoin told AFP. "At her age, children test their limits and it's up to their parents to set boundaries."
"I started an appeal of the decision today to reestablish parental authority, and to ensure that this case doesn't set a precedent," she said. Otherwise, said Beaudoin, "parents are going to be walking on egg shells from now on."
"I think most children respect their parents and would never go so far as to take them to court, but it's clear that some would and we have to ask ourselves how far this will go."
According to court documents, the girl's Internet transgression was just the latest in a string of broken house rules. Even so, Justice Suzanne Tessier found her punishment too severe.
Beaudoin noted the girl used a court-appointed lawyer in her parents' 10-year custody dispute to launch her landmark case against dear old dad.

5 comments:

The Ferrill's said...

Lord have mercy on us all!
And I love love love that Nina got to go to work with daddy! What fun!

Linda said...

That's very scary! -And I agree with Laine - I love the idea that Nina went to work with Daddy!

Buffi Young said...

OH....SO SCARY!!!!! What in the WORLD is this world coming to!??!?!

Any parenting tips your learning...you can pass along my way cause OH WE NEED THEM!!!! :)

Have a great week!
Love ya,
Buffi

Musings from Kim K. said...

Oh my...this makes my toes curl. What a scary article.

Kim K.

Tami said...

Looks like you all have had a busy start to your summer:-)!

I can't believe this article is real!!? I feel bad for this family...things must NOT be good, and go way beyond this 'grounding' incident. I'm with you...this sets a bad precedent and totally oversteps a parents authority. Things are moving down a scary and sad road;-(.